If I could only keep my mouth shut. That thought usually enters my mind after I have opened mouth and inserted foot…happens way too often. Since I can't add to the wisdom of the Word, I thought I'd just share a few nuggets of that wisdom for you to ponder…
…be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger… James 1:19
A gentle answer turns away anger, but a harsh word stirs up wrath. Proverbs 15:1
A fool's lips lead to strife, and his mouth provokes a beating. Proverbs 18:6
Even a fool is considered wise when he keeps silent, discerning, when he seals his lips. Proverbs 17:28
I had a history teacher, Mr. Benson, who would always say "silence is a virtue." I don't think I understood the depth of his words. I just thought he was telling a group of rowdy 9th graders to be quiet.
So, where is that virtue in our world today? When you see a person who is able to keep quiet in the face of trials and strife, isn't it a blessing? I think how I could be a blessing to others by passing this "virtue" forward. There is a time to speak, but I believe it is rarely out of anger. Once the angry words spill out it is like a cracked dam…more will follow.
You only have a split second to decide when the anger wells up inside you…will you blurt or will you bless?